February has been a busy month. I’ve done a lot of writing, but it hasn’t been blog posts.
What is InCoWriMo?
The aim of InCoWriMo is to write and send one hand-written letter, card or note every day of the month. It appealed to me because:
- I used to love writing letters, but haven’t written any for years.
- I love receiving letters and cards – it makes a nice change from bills! – and I’d like to give other people that experience.
- I was aware that I’d almost lost touch with some people in my life who I’d like to reconnect with.
- It was an opportunity to send a message that I might not put out on social media or in an email.
There is also a pledge that you take (OK, this bit is a bit corny, but I think it’s a nice touch), which goes like this:
I, Denise, clearly see the benefits of InCoWriMo participation, not only to me personally, but also to those who will receive my correspondence. InCoWriMo is a beneficial endeavour and worthy of my full attention. I hereby pledge to hand-write and mail/deliver one letter, card, note or postcard every day during the month of February.
And so I stocked up on cards and writing paper, drew out a tracker in my Bullet Journal to record my efforts and got writing.
Writing is hard!
It’s years since I’ve put pen to paper for much more than random notes and lists. Sitting down to write a letter required stamina and used hand muscles that had pretty much given up on ever being asked to do anything again!
I have always had pretty neat handwriting. But years of scrawling lecture notes, shopping lists and hurried reminders on Post-It notes had taken its toll, and I had to take time to sit down and write something that was legible.
Wherever possible, I also wanted my letters and cards to be more than just a quick hello. I wanted to send a message that was personal and came from the heart, and to take the opportunity to say something positive.
I wrote a list of potential recipients on my phone, and added to it as I thought of people throughout the month. This meant I could pick a name that I felt I wanted to write to each day, rather than have a rigid list to go through in order. Once I’d written the letter I made a note in my tracker.
What response did I get?
The response has been lovely. It seems that people REALLY appreciate it when you put aside some time for them, and they are delighted to get something unexpected through their letterbox!
I heard back from people via Facebook, Twitter, Slack, emails, postcards and letters. Everyone thought InCoWriMo was a great idea, and I suspect a few may even take the challenge next year!
What have I learned from this challenge?
- You think differently when you hand-write. It’s a slower process. You don’t have the benefit of a backspace or undo button, so more care needs to be taken if you want to avoid lots of ugly scribbling out.
- This means you put more of yourself into what you’re saying. It’s a more considered process and I think this results in a more thoughtful message.
- Writing every day takes discipline. I avoided batching letters, because this challenge wasn’t about being efficient; for me, it was about taking time every day to think about someone.
- It can be hard to find people’s addresses! Lots of the people I wanted to write to are friends principally through cyberspace. I have met all of them in person, but when you have email and social media, why would anyone need to share their address? I did a little searching around on the internet once or twice but, honestly, I didn’t like to do that, and often it wasn’t any help anyway. So I had to ask a few people for their address, which spoiled the surprise a bit.
- And, of course, I now have a lovely sense of satisfaction now that I’ve completed my challenge!
Over to you!
Have you taken part in InCoWriMo, or a similar challenge, such as NaNoWrMo? What benefits did you get from it? I’d love to hear in the comments.
Didn’t hear from me? Perhaps I couldn’t find your address – some people don’t even list a correspondence address for their company that I could use. Who knows what you could be missing out on! If you’d like a letter or card from me, send your address in an email – I promise I’ll write back!